Hey everyone, I know it's been a while since i posted on here and i'm sorry. The last couple months have been a whirlwind of events. I'm sure most of you have heard that I got married about a month ago. Missy is a total blessing and a answer to my prayers. The way we met is a neat story in itself and if anyone wants to hear about it then give me a call (my new # is 843-655-1626).
Anyway, I just left the court house here in Conway and I need as much prayer as i can get!! The ongoing issue with my child support has reached a point that is totally in Gods hands!!
Right now i have a bench warrant for my arrest due to the courts wanting me to pay about 85% of my paycheck. I am going to turn myself in and go before the judge. I asked the case worker today if there is anyway i can plead my case to the judge and she said no. The first available time i can do that is gonna be in July. Until then i am expected to continue to pay what the courts have ordered me to pay leaving me with about 75.00 to live on for 2 weeks. When i turn myself in i will have to pay the balance on my child support with is about 1100.00 plus 300.00 for court fees or spend 6 months in county jail and when i get out of jail the whole process begins again.
There are 2 other options available.....
1. Jennifer can forgive the arrears bringing my balance to zero and when i go before the judge he will drop the warrant and i will walk out still being expected to pay the 85%
2. Jennifer can drop the whole child support thing and we can come to a agreement on what I should pay and i will give her cash every week/every other week.
I called her today and ran everything by her. She agrees that jail is for criminals and that I don't need to go there. She says she will think about it and tomorrow i am going to see her and show her the documents.
Please keep this matter in your prayers and pray that God speaks to everyone involved about what the "right thing" to do is.
I'm trying very hard to keep my spirits up and to trust in God. What I keep hearing in my heart is "to be still and know that I am God"
I miss you all and Love you very much!! I can't wait for everyone to meet Missy and she can't wait to meet everyone as well :)
Coog